• Getting Tired

    From Dave Drum@1:396/45 to Ruth Haffly on Tue Jun 24 05:59:44 2025
    Ruth Haffly wrote to Dave Drum <=-

    No way I'm gonna drive an hour and a half for *anyone's* food - not
    just fats food. If I'm already in the area for some legitimate reason
    - that's a different story.

    Agreed. There's a Tanger Outlet mall in the same area; we've stopped a
    few times but it's not a regular destination for us.

    Which sent me to the Bing search engine. Now I'm confused on a higher
    plane as to whether "Tanger" is folggin its own merch or is a developer offering strip mall space for others to peddle their trash.

    Saw ortho dr yesterday as follow up from fall on trip. New x-rays
    showed no bone fractures (Utah ER thought possible hairline fracture of

    One thing I have learned as I get older. We don't heal up as quickly
    as we used to did when we wore a younger person's clothes.

    That's for sure! Most of the bruises and scrapes are well on their way
    to healing; the elbow and knee are going to take longer. I'm going to
    try to sit down at the sewing machine next week to finish a job started
    in April, just down to buttons and button holes. I've been doing small amounts of hand wash dishes and laundry but leaving the major dish
    doing and meal prep for Steve. Latter has been a lot of eating out of
    our freezer.

    Got to rotate your stock brfore it's been in there so long you are
    asking "What did this used to be?" Bv)=

    I'm pretty good about labelling and keeping an inventory for the big freezer, have had a few "what's this?" moments with things in the
    fridge freezer.

    I'm pretty good about that. But once in a while I hit a mystery placket.
    If I thaw it out and it's nothing I want to deal with at the time then
    Jasper, Eva and/or Isoble get at "treat"

    I'm gonna be busy from Monday with all manner of medical stuff. Monday
    is the start for the radiatio0n trreatments for the lung cancer. Then
    off to my primary doctor in the afternoon. Got to call Monday to reschedule an appointment with rheumatology that conflicts with my
    final radiation deal.

    The oncologist assures me that I will not glow in the dark. DRAT!

    No, you won't but one side effect is fatigue--and not just ordinary tiredness. For me it hit several weeks into treatment--and it was so overwhelming that I would have to immediately stop what I was doing (making sure stove was turned off, etc) and go lie down for a while.
    That persisted for a time after finishing radiation, still get it every
    so often. I had pre made a couple of weeks worth of meals before
    starting treatment and put them in the freezer--a big help.

    My priary care doctor (yesterday afternoon) told me about the fatigue but
    not when it hits. I feel fine currently. Got any advice on when to expect
    the "side effect"?

    When I make this I generally freeze half (or more) for future DD>
    reference. And I'll be pulling my last batch out the freezer for DD>
    tonight's meal. DD> Sided with creamy cole slaw and Tatger Tots.


    Title: Pulled Brisket Sandwiches
    Categories: Beef, Herbs, Sauces, Breads, Chilies
    Yield: 12 servings

    Might want to check out your supply of meals in the freezer for days
    you don't feel like cooking.

    Been there, done that. And my S-I-L seems to have made me a "project",
    Last night she sent my brother over with a casserole dish filoled with
    penne and meatballs in a marinara and 4 slices of home-baked garlic bread.

    I downed a fourth of it and the rest went into the fridge. I won't need
    to get into the Healthy Choice frozen entrees for a while.

    MMMMM----- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.06

    Title: N.Y.T.'s Sourdough Starter
    Categories: Five, Breads, Fruits
    Yield: 2 servings

    16 oz Flour
    3 oz Pineapple juice
    10 oz Filtered or spring water

    MAKE SEED CULTURE: Combine 1 ounce of the flour and 2
    ounces pineapple juice in a large glass or small
    nonreactive bowl. Cover tightly with plastic wrap and
    leave at room temperature, stirring with a wet spoon
    twice a day. Bubbles should appear after 24 to 36 hours.
    After 48 hours, add 1 ounce flour and remaining
    pineapple juice, stirring to incorporate. Re-cover with
    plastic wrap and leave at room temperature, stirring
    with a wet spoon twice a day. When it is foamy, in 1 to
    4 days, combine 2 ounces flour and 1 ounce filtered or
    spring water in a medium nonreactive bowl. Add seed
    culture, stirring to incorporate, and re-cover with
    plastic wrap. Stir twice a day to aerate.

    When mixture has doubled in bulk, in 1 to 2 days,
    convert it into a starter: Combine 12 ounces flour and 9
    ounces filtered or spring water in bowl. Add 4 ounces of
    seed culture mixture (discard the rest, or use to make a
    second starter) and mix until fully incorporated.
    Transfer to a lightly floured surface and knead for 2
    minutes. It should have the consistency of bread dough.
    Transfer to a nonreactive bowl and let rest at room
    temperature until it doubles in size, about 4 to 8
    hours. Knead lightly, then store in container with
    tight-fitting lid (container must be large enough to let
    starter triple in bulk).

    Store in refrigerator.

    TIP: Every 5 to 10 days the starter will need to be fed
    with more flour and water. Follow the directions in step
    2 above, substituting starter for seed culture.

    By Oliver Strand

    Yield: 2 pizza recipes and leftover starter

    RECIPE FROM: https://cooking.nytimes.com

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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to Dave Drum on Wed Jun 25 12:35:05 2025
    Hi Dave,

    Agreed. There's a Tanger Outlet mall in the same area; we've stopped a
    few times but it's not a regular destination for us.

    Which sent me to the Bing search engine. Now I'm confused on a higher plane as to whether "Tanger" is folggin its own merch or is a
    developer offering strip mall space for others to peddle their trash.

    Appears to be the latter. Some of our favorite stores ( a kitchen wares
    one, Corning ware, Wilson leather goods) have folded over the years with
    no replacements so we've not been to the outlet is a few years.

    in April, just down to buttons and button holes. I've been doing small amounts of hand wash dishes and laundry but leaving the major dish
    doing and meal prep for Steve. Latter has been a lot of eating out of
    our freezer.

    Got to rotate your stock brfore it's been in there so long you are
    asking "What did this used to be?" Bv)=

    I'm pretty good about labelling and keeping an inventory for the big freezer, have had a few "what's this?" moments with things in the
    fridge freezer.

    I'm pretty good about that. But once in a while I hit a mystery
    placket. If I thaw it out and it's nothing I want to deal with at the
    time then
    Jasper, Eva and/or Isoble get at "treat"

    How long are you boarding the dogs? Seems like it has been a few years
    since you started mentioning them.


    I'm gonna be busy from Monday with all manner of medical stuff. Monday
    is the start for the radiatio0n trreatments for the lung cancer. Then
    off to my primary doctor in the afternoon. Got to call Monday to reschedule an appointment with rheumatology that conflicts with my
    final radiation deal.

    The oncologist assures me that I will not glow in the dark. DRAT!

    No, you won't but one side effect is fatigue--and not just ordinary tiredness. For me it hit several weeks into treatment--and it was so overwhelming that I would have to immediately stop what I was doing (making sure stove was turned off, etc) and go lie down for a while.
    That persisted for a time after finishing radiation, still get it every
    so often. I had pre made a couple of weeks worth of meals before
    starting treatment and put them in the freezer--a big help.

    My priary care doctor (yesterday afternoon) told me about the fatigue
    but not when it hits. I feel fine currently. Got any advice on when to expect the "side effect"?

    IIRC, it started about halfway thru (I had about 35 treatments--Monday
    thru Friday with week ends off to recover) but didn't really hit hard
    until near the end. Your milage may vary. They may tatoo some
    registration marks (small dots) on you to help them line the machine up
    better. They're barely noticeable tho.

    BTW, got the stitches out yesterday but can't get the area wet for a
    couple more days. Dr is very happy with how the elbow area looks.
    Looking back, I'm half surprised I didn't cut a ligament or tendon when
    I fell--but I'm glad I didn't.


    Might want to check out your supply of meals in the freezer for days
    you don't feel like cooking.

    Been there, done that. And my S-I-L seems to have made me a "project", Last night she sent my brother over with a casserole dish filoled with penne and meatballs in a marinara and 4 slices of home-baked garlic
    bread.

    I downed a fourth of it and the rest went into the fridge. I won't
    need to get into the Healthy Choice frozen entrees for a while.

    Nice to have family close by to take care of you. We were in Savannah,
    nearest family (in laws) were in Florida but not able to do any sort of
    care. Church and work (Army) families were a help tho, Army was very co-operative about Steve taking time to take care of me. We timed my
    radiation treatments to fit in the time frame he had free after PT but
    before the work day started. He'd come home from PT, get cleaned up and
    have breakfast, then take me for treatments, take me home and be at his
    job at the time he was supposed to start.

    ---
    Catch you later,
    Ruth
    rchaffly{at}earthlink{dot}net FIDO 1:396/45.28


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  • From Dave Drum@1:18/200 to Ruth Haffly on Fri Jun 27 12:07:00 2025
    Ruth Haffly wrote to Dave Drum <=-

    I'm pretty good about labelling and keeping an inventory for the big freezer, have had a few "what's this?" moments with things in the
    fridge freezer.

    I'm pretty good about that. But once in a while I hit a mystery
    placket. If I thaw it out and it's nothing I want to deal with at
    the time then Jasper, Eva and/or Isoble get at "treat"

    How long are you boarding the dogs? Seems like it has been a few
    years since you started mentioning them.

    We hasd their "Daddy" for a while, after his divorce he slept on the
    couch or recliner. Currently he is re-married, working two jobs (one
    part time) and his wife is working as well. They are trying to get a
    permanent place soon and get out of the residential motel they're in
    now. And then they can have the mutts. I'll miss Jasper, though.

    I'm gonna be busy from Monday with all manner of medical stuff. Monday
    is the start for the radiatio0n trreatments for the lung cancer. Then
    off to my primary doctor in the afternoon. Got to call Monday to reschedule an appointment with rheumatology that conflicts with my
    final radiation deal.

    The oncologist assures me that I will not glow in the dark. DRAT!

    No, you won't but one side effect is fatigue--and not just ordinary tiredness. For me it hit several weeks into treatment--and it was so overwhelming that I would have to immediately stop what I was doing (making sure stove was turned off, etc) and go lie down for a while.
    That persisted for a time after finishing radiation, still get it every
    so often. I had pre made a couple of weeks worth of meals before
    starting treatment and put them in the freezer--a big help.

    My primary care doctor (yesterday afternoon) told me about the fatigue
    but not when it hits. I feel fine currently. Got any advice on when to expect the "side effect"?

    IIRC, it started about halfway thru (I had about 35 treatments--Monday thru Friday with week ends off to recover) but didn't really hit hard until near the end. Your milage may vary. They may tatoo some
    registration marks (small dots) on you to help them line the machine up better. They're barely noticeable tho.

    Today's session is the half-way point. For registration marks I have some large(ish) "X" marks with waterproof tape over the junction so it doesn't
    wash away in the shower.

    BTW, got the stitches out yesterday but can't get the area wet for a couple more days. Dr is very happy with how the elbow area looks.
    Looking back, I'm half surprised I didn't cut a ligament or tendon when
    I fell--but I'm glad I didn't.

    Ya think??? Always a feeling of relief when we dodge the bullet.

    Might want to check out your supply of meals in the freezer for days
    you don't feel like cooking.

    Been there, done that. And my S-I-L seems to have made me a "project", Last night she sent my brother over with a casserole dish filoled with penne and meatballs in a marinara and 4 slices of home-baked garlic
    bread.

    I downed a fourth of it and the rest went into the fridge. I won't
    need to get into the Healthy Choice frozen entrees for a while.

    Nice to have family close by to take care of you. We were in Savannah, nearest family (in laws) were in Florida but not able to do any sort of care. Church and work (Army) families were a help tho, Army was very co-operative about Steve taking time to take care of me. We timed my radiation treatments to fit in the time frame he had free after PT but before the work day started. He'd come home from PT, get cleaned up and have breakfast, then take me for treatments, take me home and be at his job at the time he was supposed to start.

    Fortunately my brother is retired from his 9 to 5. He's certainly running
    the wheels off his ride providing Uber for Ms. Vicky (wife), Robin (wife's daughter), Tiffany (daughter) and me.

    MMMMM----- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.06

    Title: Tiajuana Taxi Torte
    Categories: Beef, Breads, Vegetables, Dairy
    Yield: 6 Servings

    1 lb Ground beef
    2 1/2 oz Pkg taco seasoning mix
    29 oz (2 cans) Mexican-style
    - tomatoes w/chilies
    12 (6"-8") corn tortillas

    MMMMM--------------------------TOPPINGS-------------------------------
    Dairy sour cream or crema
    Salsa
    Guacamole
    Cheddar cheese; grated

    Brown beef and drain. Add taco seasoning and tomatoes and
    simmer for 15 minutes. In a 9"x13" pan, put 4 tablespoons
    meat mixture; lay 2 corn tortillas side by side; top with
    some of meat mixture; top with cheddar cheese. Repeat
    process until mixture is used up, ending with cheese.

    Bake in 350øF/175øC oven for 30 minutes.

    Garnish with sour cream, salsa and guacamole.

    From: http://www.cooks.com

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  • From Ruth Haffly@1:396/45.28 to Dave Drum on Sat Jun 28 15:24:45 2025
    Hi Dave,

    freezer, have had a few "what's this?" moments with things in the
    fridge freezer.

    I'm pretty good about that. But once in a while I hit a mystery
    placket. If I thaw it out and it's nothing I want to deal with at
    the time then Jasper, Eva and/or Isoble get at "treat"

    How long are you boarding the dogs? Seems like it has been a few
    years since you started mentioning them.

    We hasd their "Daddy" for a while, after his divorce he slept on the
    couch or recliner. Currently he is re-married, working two jobs (one
    part time) and his wife is working as well. They are trying to get a permanent place soon and get out of the residential motel they're in
    now. And then they can have the mutts. I'll miss Jasper, though.

    I miss having a dog but neighbors have them so we can get our fuzz
    therapy. Our daughter Rachel has 2 dogs, both adopted last year. Calvin Drooledge is an extremely shy golden retriever; most of the time he
    hides in his cage but Steve enticed him out a few times with treats.
    Moose is a black lab, still in his enthusiastic puppyhood, doesn't like
    to stay still long enough for much petting.


    The oncologist assures me that I will not glow in the dark. DRAT!

    No, you won't but one side effect is fatigue--and not just ordinary tiredness. For me it hit several weeks into treatment--and it was so overwhelming that I would have to immediately stop what I was doing (making sure stove was turned off, etc) and go lie down for a while.
    That persisted for a time after finishing radiation, still get it every
    so often. I had pre made a couple of weeks worth of meals before
    starting treatment and put them in the freezer--a big help.

    My primary care doctor (yesterday afternoon) told me about the fatigue
    but not when it hits. I feel fine currently. Got any advice on when to expect the "side effect"?

    IIRC, it started about halfway thru (I had about 35 treatments--Monday thru Friday with week ends off to recover) but didn't really hit hard until near the end. Your milage may vary. They may tatoo some
    registration marks (small dots) on you to help them line the machine up better. They're barely noticeable tho.

    Today's session is the half-way point. For registration marks I have
    some large(ish) "X" marks with waterproof tape over the junction so it doesn't wash away in the shower.

    You are getting off easy but still be aware of the side effects.

    BTW, got the stitches out yesterday but can't get the area wet for a couple more days. Dr is very happy with how the elbow area looks.
    Looking back, I'm half surprised I didn't cut a ligament or tendon when
    I fell--but I'm glad I didn't.

    Ya think??? Always a feeling of relief when we dodge the bullet.

    Very much so! Attendant at the rest area was a young man, probably a
    summer hire, who did fill out an incident report but otherwise didn't do
    much of anything. Steve pulled out the first aid kit from the truck to
    put temporary patches on until we got to the ER.


    Nice to have family close by to take care of you. We were in Savannah, nearest family (in laws) were in Florida but not able to do any sort of care. Church and work (Army) families were a help tho, Army was very co-operative about Steve taking time to take care of me. We timed my radiation treatments to fit in the time frame he had free after PT but before the work day started. He'd come home from PT, get cleaned up and have breakfast, then take me for treatments, take me home and be at his job at the time he was supposed to start.

    Fortunately my brother is retired from his 9 to 5. He's certainly
    running the wheels off his ride providing Uber for Ms. Vicky (wife),
    Robin (wife's daughter), Tiffany (daughter) and me.

    No cost Uber for family. (G) We've used Uber, IIRC, only once. Wake
    Forest has started a free ride service using mini vans, set up as an on
    line contact only. We've not yet tried it but I have the app on my phone
    for whenever I might need it.

    ---
    Catch you later,
    Ruth
    rchaffly{at}earthlink{dot}net FIDO 1:396/45.28


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  • From Dave Drum@1:3634/12 to Ruth Haffly on Mon Jun 30 06:01:00 2025
    Ruth Haffly wrote to Dave Drum <=-

    We hasd their "Daddy" for a while, after his divorce he slept on the
    couch or recliner. Currently he is re-married, working two jobs (one
    part time) and his wife is working as well. They are trying to get a permanent place soon and get out of the residential motel they're in
    now. And then they can have the mutts. I'll miss Jasper, though.

    I miss having a dog but neighbors have them so we can get our fuzz therapy. Our daughter Rachel has 2 dogs, both adopted last year. Calvin Drooledge is an extremely shy golden retriever; most of the time he
    hides in his cage but Steve enticed him out a few times with treats.
    Moose is a black lab, still in his enthusiastic puppyhood, doesn't like
    to stay still long enough for much petting.

    Of the three Jaspermis a pit bull mix who is more likely to lick you to
    death than bite you. Isobel was gotten as a just weaned puppy - of a new
    to me breed - blue-tick beagle. She can be a sweetheart bust has the most annoying bark... which is how we know the battery in the bark collar is discharged and needs plugged-in. And Eva, the middle dog, is a Heinz who Stephan rescued from her owner who was severely abusing her. When the guy objected Stephan "trearted" him to a dose of his own medicine. She's very
    shy and hesitant around humans ... but a real sweetie pie.

    When the chirrun get a new forever home for their fur kids I'm going to
    hit an ASPCA adoption event and let a kitten adopt me. I'm nore of a cat
    person than a dog person anyway.

    The oncologist assures me that I will not glow in the dark. DRAT!

    No, you won't but one side effect is fatigue--and not just ordinary tiredness. For me it hit several weeks into treatment--and it was so overwhelming that I would have to immediately stop what I was doing (making sure stove was turned off, etc) and go lie down for a while.
    That persisted for a time after finishing radiation, still get it every
    so often. I had pre made a couple of weeks worth of meals before
    starting treatment and put them in the freezer--a big help.

    My primary care doctor (yesterday afternoon) told me about the fatigue
    but not when it hits. I feel fine currently. Got any advice on when to expect the "side effect"?

    IIRC, it started about halfway thru (I had about 35 treatments--Monday thru Friday with week ends off to recover) but didn't really hit hard until near the end. Your milage may vary. They may tatoo some
    registration marks (small dots) on you to help them line the machine up better. They're barely noticeable tho.

    Today's session is the half-way point. For registration marks I have
    some large(ish) "X" marks with waterproof tape over the junction so it doesn't wash away in the shower.

    You are getting off easy but still be aware of the side effects.

    Today and Wednesday are the final sessions. Still no extra tiredness.
    We'll see what happens after next Wednesday.

    BTW, got the stitches out yesterday but can't get the area wet for a couple more days. Dr is very happy with how the elbow area looks.
    Looking back, I'm half surprised I didn't cut a ligament or tendon when
    I fell--but I'm glad I didn't.

    Ya think??? Always a feeling of relief when we dodge the bullet.

    Very much so! Attendant at the rest area was a young man, probably a summer hire, who did fill out an incident report but otherwise didn't
    do much of anything. Steve pulled out the first aid kit from the truck
    to put temporary patches on until we got to the ER.

    Nice to have family close by to take care of you. We were in Savannah, nearest family (in laws) were in Florida but not able to do any sort of care. Church and work (Army) families were a help tho, Army was very co-operative about Steve taking time to take care of me. We timed my radiation treatments to fit in the time frame he had free after PT but before the work day started. He'd come home from PT, get cleaned up and have breakfast, then take me for treatments, take me home and be at his job at the time he was supposed to start.

    Steve was probablu up in pay-grade by then. If he's been E-2 or E-3 it
    would probably have been a different story.

    Fortunately my brother is retired from his 9 to 5. He's certainly
    running the wheels off his ride providing Uber for Ms. Vicky (wife),
    Robin (wife's daughter), Tiffany (daughter) and me.

    No cost Uber for family. (G) We've used Uber, IIRC, only once. Wake
    Forest has started a free ride service using mini vans, set up as an on line contact only. We've not yet tried it but I have the app on my
    phone for whenever I might need it.

    My local Senior Center offers such a service. I had thought about applying
    to be a driver for them. Their range of wheels runs from "socer mom" vans
    to mini-buses on full-sizes cargo van chassis. They off door-to-door as
    well as location to location rides but with no fixed routs.

    MMMMM----- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.06

    Title: Risotto for Chemo Patients
    Categories: Poultry, Rice, Vegetables, Cheese, Wine
    Yield: 2 Servings

    3 c Chicken broth
    1/2 c Dry white wine
    1 c Arborio rice; raw
    1 md Onion; peeled; diced fine
    2 tb Olive oil
    2 tb Butter
    1/4 c Parmesan cheese; grated
    Salt & pepper

    Creamy rice dish - comforting and delicious

    Put the chicken or vegetable broth into a pot and heat
    on the stove until boiling, then reduce to a simmer.

    In a heavy-bottomed saucepan, add olive oil and 1 tbsp.
    butter, heating until butter foams. Add onions and saute
    over medium heat until translucent (but not brown). Add
    rice, stirring to coat grains with oil. Cook, stirring
    with a wooden spoon (a metal spoon might break up the
    rice grains too much) until the rice turns translucent.
    Reduce heat to low.

    Add the white wine, and continue to stir until the wine
    is absorbed. Add the hot chicken stock, 1/2 cup at a
    time. Stir, allowing each 1/2 cup stock to be absorbed
    by the rice before the next one is added. This part of
    the process can take 15-20 minutes.

    After all the liquid has been added, and the risotto has
    become creamy (it should be chewy but fully cooked),
    remove pan from heat. Add remaining tablespoon butter
    and Parmesan cheese, then salt and pepper to taste.

    Serve immediately.

    Makes 2 portions.

    VARIATIONS: Add a handful of thawed frozen peas during
    the last 5 minutes of cooking. Sauté mushrooms with
    onions. Top the dish with sliced poached chicken. Add
    fresh herbs at the end like chives, parsley, dill,
    chervil, tarragon and basil + a little lemon zest.

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